PROPER 17, YEAR C
August 28, 2016
Christ Church, Woodbury, N. J.
Luke 14:1, 7-14
Down through the centuries, the Church has read today’s Gospel as a lesson in humility: one of the principal Christian virtues.
At dinner in the house of a leading Pharisee, Jesus observes the guests jockeying for position, trying as they arrive to snatch up the best seats. Most likely he discerns in this behavior the symptoms of a deeper spiritual malaise: namely, pride, ambition, and the striving for honor and recognition.
So, he admonishes the guests with a bit of proverbial wisdom. When you’re invited to a marriage feast, don’t sit down in the place of honor—because when someone more important than you arrives, the host may ask you to relinquish your seat, and you’ll suffer the public embarrassment of being sent down to the least desirable location in the room. Instead, take the lowest place first, so that your host has the opportunity to honor you with an invitation to come up higher.
Our Lord is not really offering this advice merely as a tip on successful social climbing, but rather as an illustration of a broader principle. Those who exalt themselves will be humbled, but those who humble themselves will be exalted.
To expand the point: those who try to grab the best seat first are assuming a posture of entitlement and engaging in an effort to take what they believe to be their rightful due. But the person who takes the lowest seat first is assuming a posture of humility and openness, so that they’ll accept any invitation to “go up higher” not as a right but as a gracious gift freely given.
Over the years, moreover, my observation has been that people who assume this posture of humility and receptivity are, by and large, fundamentally happier and more content than people who assume a posture of entitlement.
One of my priestly mentors, the Rev. Dr. Richard Cornish Martin, wrote a short memoir, entitled Called, before he died about seven years ago. In this short book, he observed that in all his years of priestly ministry he’d never really actively sought any of his church assignments. Instead, it all seemed a series of coincidences of being in the right place at the right time and receiving the invitation of a vestry or bishop to come and take this or that position. Very little of it was planned; it all just unfolded according to its own logic, and he accepted the opportunities and challenges that came his way with deep gratitude and indeed a sense of profound unworthiness.
Not all of us can live that way all the time; and if I’m honest I cannot say that I’ve always approached my own priestly vocation in exactly that way myself. But one observation that I can make from my experience is that by far the most fulfilling tasks, assignments, and responsibilities that have come my way have not been those that I sought out, but rather the ones that sought me out.
For example, I never imagined that I would serve on a diocesan Search and Nominations committee for the election of a bishop, so that was never an assignment that I desired or sought. And then one day, about eleven years ago, the Chair of the Diocese of Rhode Island Standing Committee called on me in my office, said they needed me, and asked would I accept the appointment? With some trepidation I said yes. I didn’t know quite what to expect, but it turned out to be one of the most interesting, challenging, and rewarding assignments ever.
Conversely, I’ve noticed over the years that a common denominator among people who are angry or bitter about their life in the Church is often a feeling of resentment that, somehow, they’ve been cheated of their rightful due.
For example: the vestry member who resigns in a huff and stops coming to church because he thinks that his ideas and proposals for how to make the parish grow haven’t been listened to and taken seriously. Or: the volunteer in parish organizations who goes to the grave full of bitterness and resentment because she thinks all her years of hard work for the church have never received the proper acknowledgment and gratitude. (Right from the beginning of my thirty years in ordained ministry, I’ve encountered multiple examples of both types, so I’m not talking about anyone in particular here at Christ Church! But every parish has them!)
In cases like these, the people involved are only making themselves miserable—just like the guests who arrive at the wedding feast and grab the best seats, setting themselves up for a legacy of bitterness and resentment when they’re sent down to the lowest place. Once again, our Lord’s point is that those who simply receive with gratitude whatever blessings come their way, end up being much happier and more content with their lot in life.
And what’s at stake is not merely this life but the next as well. Our Lord then introduces what I like to call the eschatological dimension. (Eschatological is one of my favorite theological words; it means having to do with the Last Things or End Times.) When you give a dinner or a banquet, our Lord says, don’t invite your friends, relations, and others who can return the favor and repay you in this life; rather, invite the poor, the maimed, the blind, and the lame—and you will be blessed, precisely because they cannot repay you. You’ll be repaid at the Resurrection on the last day.
So, again, Our Lord isn’t just giving advice on how to give good dinner parties but enunciating a wider principle of crucial importance. Sometimes, we just have to do what we believe to be right, even though we may not be rewarded or recognized for it in this life. On the contrary, doing the right thing may even attract criticism and make us unpopular. But God sees our actions and our motives. And our final reward, the reward that really matters, comes not in this life or in this world. In that knowledge, then, we go forward, fulfilling what we believe to be our duty in each situation that confronts us, and—most importantly of all—doing so with the unfailing good cheer that testifies to the vibrancy of our faith.