PROPER 25, YEAR A
Sunday, October 25, 2026
Sts. Matthew & Mark, Barrington, R. I.
Matthew 22:34-36
For the past five weeks, the Sunday Gospel readings have come from the section of St. Matthew’s Gospel in which Jesus is in the Temple after his triumphal entry into Jerusalem. The chief priests and elders have been challenging him with difficult questions meant to trip him up and make him look foolish, and he’s responded with a series of memorable parables and sayings.
Today, this back-and-forth reaches its climax when one of the Pharisees, a lawyer, asks Jesus, “Which commandment in the Law is the greatest?” The Jewish Law, or Torah, was generally reckoned to have 613 commandments. The legal scholars known as the scribes devoted their lives to studying how these commandments related to one another in specific, concrete situations. Among the rabbis, a common question was which commandment might serve as the key to all the rest, summing up and interpreting their meaning.
In response, our Lord joins two texts from the Torah: the first from Deuteronomy 6:5, known as the Shema and recited daily by pious Jews: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might”; the second from Leviticus 19:18, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” In the Book of Common Prayer, these words are known as the Summary of the Law.
Our Lord’s answer is similar to those offered by other rabbis. The Talmud relates that in the first century BC, a prospective convert to Judaism asked the great teacher Hillel to teach him the entire Torah while standing on one leg. Hillel replied: “That which is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. This is the whole Torah. The rest is commentary. Go forth and study.”
The genius and originality of our Lord’s answer lie less in his choice of these two texts than in his combining and juxtaposing them. As far as we know, no rabbi ever combined these two commandments this way. Love the Lord your God. Love your neighbor as yourself.
As the Church reflected on these two phrases over the centuries, it discerned a threefold standard for measuring spiritual and moral progress in the Christian life: love of God, love of neighbor, and love of self.
The Church’s spiritual tradition recommends examining our conscience at the end of each day and on other occasions, such as during Lent or when preparing to make our confession. Some traditional guides to the examination of conscience are organized around these three headings: In what ways have I failed to love God? In what ways have I failed to love my neighbor? In what ways have I failed to love myself? Conversely, in positive terms: How well have I succeeded in loving God, my neighbor, and myself?
What does it mean to love God? In the classical Christian understanding, love is less an emotion than an orientation of our whole being toward another. As Jesus says in today’s Gospel, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.”
In certain forms of prayer, as we reflect on God’s goodness and generosity, we may be stirred to emotional outbursts of praise and thanksgiving. Such sentiments certainly express love, but loving God goes much deeper and broader than that. One definition I find helpful is that loving God means seeking his honor and glory above all things, which in turn means seeking to understand and fulfill his will for our lives. By this definition, simply making the effort to be here, to come to church and say our prayers, is a key expression of our love for God, even if it’s only a beginning.
“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” This means the measure and standard of how to love our neighbors is how we love ourselves. That raises the question of what it truly means to love ourselves. Genuine self-love is not selfishness, self-centeredness, self-regard, or self-indulgence; it is the opposite. In the Christian sense, self-love means learning to see ourselves as God sees us: creatures of infinite worth whom God created for eternal life.
The most important thing we can ever know about ourselves is that God loves us. For this reason, self-hatred and self-loathing have no place in authentic Christian spirituality. We’re called to hate our sins, yes, but they’re not who we really are; instead, they’re what prevent us from becoming all that God has created us to be. To love ourselves, then, means to desire and seek all that makes for our true good and indeed for our eternal salvation. And again, the more we realize how much God loves us, the more we gain the ability to love ourselves this way.
Loving our neighbors begins with recognizing, respecting, and honoring God’s image in our fellow human beings. It may be a cliché, but it’s true that we don’t necessarily have to like others to love them. (Although it’s preferable to both like and love them.)
Typically, the Bible uses the word “neighbor” to refer to those we’re not related to, especially strangers and sojourners. It’s natural enough to love fellow members of our family, community, or nation. But here, Jesus calls us to a love grounded in our common humanity. He calls us to love even those with whom we don’t have much in common: members of other nations, ethnic groups, social classes, political parties, or ideological persuasions. Something to keep in mind as we approach the midterm elections. We should absolutely vote our conscience and try to elect those we think should be running things. But let’s not fall into the trap of hating or despising those with whom we disagree politically.
Loving our neighbors as ourselves means seeking their objective good, both in this life and in eternity. Again, we gain the ability to do so as we learn to see our neighbors as God sees them: creatures of infinite worth, destined for eternal life in God’s presence.
Although we’re no longer bound by the ceremonial and civic precepts of the Jewish Law, the Church offers us many moral laws and guidelines for living the Christian life. Yet the three principles our Lord sets forth in today’s Gospel are the key to interpreting them all: Love God. Love your neighbor. Love yourself.
Without this threefold love, Christian morality risks falling into petty legalism. But when this love becomes the motive for all we do as members of the Church, God’s glory will shine forth in our life together as a beacon to the world.